How To Kiss: A Psychic Guide

So, it's Saturday night and things have been well, kind of neutral.

Not really much fiery passion happening these days?

As we get older we tend to feel more comfortable than excited around each other.

Maybe intimacy has even taken a back burner to other things (or puttered out!)

Or maybe you just feel awkward because it's been awhile since you've really kissed someone.

Either way, it’s time to initiate that first, magical kiss.

And as far as making the first move move goes

... you can be sure that there are worse ways this evening could go than taking a chance on bombing an attempt to kiss someone you're attracted to. Trust your intuition, girlfriend!

Sometimes we need to turn on our kissing vibes and connect soul-to-soul

Really what I’m saying is, we all need to make the first move sometimes.

Even if we're shy!!

Don’t sweat it! Kissing should be fun, and if you really want your relationship to find that spark- take these psychic steps to an amazing kiss.

Tip #1 -Prepare for that first kiss

Plan for it by visualizing a kiss in your mind. See the passion, the connection as your lips meet. Brush your teeth and drink lots of water or chew some minty gum. Be ready and confident to take a chance and make the first move.

Tip #2 - Tune into their body's energy

Pay attention to their body language. Brush your gaze over their face and form.

This is a powerful way to connect with their energy body...

Your eyes are like paint brushes that stroke the surface of your loved one’s body.

Brush your attention over their lips and neck.

This gentle psychic intrusion onto their space will grab their attention especially if you are facing each other.

" Soul meets soul on lovers' lips". - Persie Bysshe Shelly

Tip #3 - The Empath's Gift

Feel with their feelings. Connection is a lost art for many couples. But we all want to be heard and appreciated. You can create a fresh and new connection by holding a powerful loving space for your loved one. Allow. Acknowledge him with your heart energy, don't speak. Expand to include them utterly.

Tip #4 - Listen Telepathically

Listen. Open your awareness fully to what they are- a spiritual being.

Hold them in loving regard and telepathically send the message, “You are safe, I know you, you are loved.”

Be open to the vibes and feelings you receive.

There is no mistaking when someone is open to you spiritually, keep eye contact.

Tip #5 - Lean in and let your lips lead the way

Initiate Kisses. Touch lips in a relaxed and unhurried way. Not too open and sloppy. Not to tight-lipped either. Gentle and intentional messaging of the lips, like a little hug.

Then draw back for a moment to tune into your intuition.

Do you want more? Are you into it? Is s/he?

Check in with your wants, needs and desires- before taking the next step.

8- Change the dynamic of the kiss.

Use different tempos, like music, go slower or faster. Softer, or more insistent, change the feeling.

Take a breath. Step back.

Notice his response and play a bit. Giving him your full attention will make the kiss more exciting and memorable.

9- Going for the throat chakra

Focus on different areas of the lips, neck and mouth. But don’t get too wet or sloppy.

Speak with truth and honesty, “You have beautiful eyes.” You make me feel so good.” "you are so handsome and sexy".

Change things up and be creative. Stay playful and let the energy of the kiss speak your desire.

10- The ultimate: melting into oneness

Visualize your crown chakra connecting with a beam of energy to their crown chakra.

Surrender the fears of the ego, listen to your heart.

Be willing to enjoy and savor this moment. No matter what happens.

Sometimes just to experience a soul-to-soul connection is a deeply blissful experience.

Stay with your heart and out of your head. Nothing has to be perfect. We are human.

11- Ground it afterwards

Disconnect the energy very gently afterwards.

Some people are highly sensitive to how quickly you pull away after a kiss.

Don’t rush on to the next thing - or check your phone.

Stay present with your beloved and let them disengage at their pace.

Intimacy can be very daunting - and it takes a moment to tune-into the energy between us.

Be patient and kind with yourself, too...

Remember a kiss can be the perfect doorway to love.

Still not sure that he's into you? Take this fun QUIZ and find out

if your a good match.

Thanks for reading,

With a bunch of love and light,

Amy Norman-Foster

Founder of Tarot-Love.Net